Anal Ease Lubricant Anal Relax Numbing Desensitizing Lube 240ml

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Dr Elizabeth Daprè, an academic GP trainee explains, 'When planning penetrative anal play always make sure to use a lot of lubricant. The anus and rectum do not self-lubricate as the vagina does, and without the liberal use of lubricant the delicate rectal tissue is at risk of damage. LET'S GET right to the point: if you're not using lube during sex, you're missing out—plain and simple. Why? Lube reduces friction, which, in turn, increases pleasure. Lube is great for all kinds of sex, but when it comes to anal sex, lube is absolutely a must-have. The anus doesn't self-lubricate, which makes it difficult and painful to insert anything—from a pinky finger to a penis—without some extra help. The anus isn’t self-lubricating like a vagina, and the tissue is thinner and more sensitive than the rest of your skin. This makes it more prone to tearing and infection, including sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

It’s no secret that poop comes out of the anus. Most fecal matter sits higher up in your rectum, but anal play can bring on the urge to poop. Adults with an anal fissure will usually be prescribed bulk-forming laxative tablets or granules. These work by helping your poo retain fluid, making it softer and less likely to dry out. They come in all sorts of lengths and widths, ranging from small ( like this one) for anal training amateurs to some pretty intimating monster-sized plugs ( like this one) for seasoned pros. A toy that has a rigid curve to it, like this one, is excellent for target G-spot or P-spot action, Finn says. Plus, the flared base will keep the toy from getting lost anywhere it shouldn’t. The G-spot is thought to be a cluster of vaginal, urethral, and clitoral tissues and nerves, Dr. Chinn says. While the exact location of this cluster varies depending on the person, some people can feel it when they put pressure on the front vaginal wall, about one or two inches inside the vagina. The emphasis here is on “some.” There’s actually a pretty big debate about the G-spot in the sex education and medical fields.Discover the ultimate in protection and intimacy with our wide selection of condoms. Our range includes latex and non-latex options, flavored condoms for added excitement, and various sizes to ensure the perfect fit. We prioritize your safety and pleasure, offering condoms from trusted brands that are rigorously tested. See a doctor if there’s a lot of blood, bleeding continues for more than a couple of minutes, or is accompanied by pain. What should you do if there’s poop?

Whether you’re a total beginner to anal sex or an anal pro, it’s not just something you can jump into. But if you’re completely new to anal and planning on doing it with a partner, it could be worth it to do some solo exploring first. This can mean taking some time to work anal into your next masturbation session, whether by stimulating yourself with your fingers or sex toys.

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You can help soothe the pain by taking simple painkillers, such as paracetamol or ibuprofen, or by soaking your bottom in a warm bath several times a day, particularly after a bowel movement. Who's affected Before, during, or after — Use lube anytime during sex. But some lubes are better than others, depending on your style. Learn which type is right for… READ MORE Communicate with your partner: Open and honest communication is crucial when it comes to any sexual activity. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and concerns with your partner to ensure you feel comfortable and safe, especially for new sexual experiences like anal play. Let go of any expectations. Instead of immediately focusing on full penetration, try to be as present as possible, and enjoy the buildup and arousal. Sometimes, it takes a few tries to make it happen. And sometimes, anatomy doesn’t fit, or it’s painful for the receiving partner. If the fissure has completely healed, the GP may recommend a further follow-up appointment a few weeks later.

For a water-based option, I really love this warming lube from Zalo. It warms, but not in any kind of irritating way,” says Engle. “I find it can be really relaxing for the anal opening, which makes anal play a lot easier and more fun for everyone.” It looks luxe too, and it is safe for all your silicone butt plugs, dildos, and other toys. Natural Extracts: Some products use natural ingredients like jojoba extractor clove oilto create a relaxing effect. Test for Allergies: Before applying any product to sensitive areas, test it on a less sensitive part of your body (like the inside of your forearm) to ensure you don’t have an allergic reaction. If you’re nervous about butt stuff, choosing a cute, whimsical plug like this one could help you feel more confident, Caputo says. The bejewelled base will also look fantastic in sexy selfies (provided you’re flexible enough to capture it!). You could, for example, wear this one out to drinks or dinner and send your partner a saucy photo from the bathroom as a preview of anal action you might be up for later on.Anne Hodder, ACS, a multi-certified sex and relationships educator, says a successful anal experience is most often the result of communication, relaxation, preparation, lubrication, and (at least initially) gentle stimulation.“Anal is something you and your partner should discussand plan for while sober and clothed,” she says. “Discuss expectations and concerns.” If you’re with a partner, Finn suggests asking them to stimulate the area with their tongue or give you a relaxing full-body massage before making any other moves. Let your partner know what feels good, what doesn’t, and what sensations you’d like to explore further. Communication is key. Using a numbing agent increases your chances of going too far too fast and causing potentially serious damage. If you have a vagina, the butt plug is also a wonderful way to experience double penetration: Slide one in after applying lube and wear it during vaginal sex with a penis or dildo. You can also simultaneously stimulate your clit with fingers or a vibrator. Many people love receiving oral while they have a butt plug in. That said, you don't need a partner to enjoy butt plugs — they make for excellent masturbation companions. In fact, solo sex is a lovely way to explore anal play. The bottom line is that anal pleasure through butt plugs is something anyone can enjoy. What should I know about lube? In anal play, once you get past your anus itself, anal sex takes place in your rectum, which isn’t a storage area for poop unless a bowel movement is imminent. That means the odds of you actually pooping on your partner mid-act are very, very low, Dr. Moritz says. If you’ve recently pooped and you don’t have any health issues that make pooping a bit less predictable, like ulcerative colitis, a ton of feces probably won’t sneak up on you mid-anal.

Next, start with something smaller than a plug: Lube up your finger, or ask your partner if you can borrow theirs. Circle the anus with the finger, glide it gently in and out of the anus, then add another finger.Small anal dildos, vibrators and butt plugs are popular beginner anal toys. They’re smaller and slimmer than regular anal toys to make insertion easier, allowing you to indulge in anal training until you feel ready for something bigger. If you prefer the feeling of fullness, set your sights on a mini butt plug for your first anal toy. Butt plugs sit nicely inside you while you’re being penetrated or pleasured in another way. When you’re ready to step it up a notch, try a harder butt plug made of metal or glass, which adds a touch of weight to give an even fuller sensation. The GP may also recommend changes to your diet or arrange for tests to look for a cause of the anal pain. If you're thinking about having anal sex or engaging in any kind of anal play, your safety and comfort (and pleasure) should always be at the forefront of your mind. Unfortunately, when it comes to anal penetration, you can't just go in there without any preparation.