MASTERING THE ART OF CUNNINLINGUS (ORAL SEX): GUIDE TO GIVING HEAD LIKE A PRO (Oral Delights)

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I think the best way to do that if your face is right up in the puss, if you tilt your head kinda from side to side, you can get a little air in through the sides of your mouth, If you’ve got a nose that’s buried in puss, it’s a good way to get some air because you should be prepared to go down for a long time.

Yep, STIs like chlamydia, herpes, gonorrhoea, syphilis and HPV can be transmitted by cunnilingus, so if you’re going down on someone and you don’t know their STI status, you should definitely use protection. Sitting: the woman can sit on a surface like a chair or table, and the man crouches or kneels to perform cunnilingus. The harsh translations throughout this blog intend to reflect the original crudeness of the authors who wrote them. Keep in mind that the most sensitive part of the penis is the head, but don't just stay there. ‘Mix up your rhythm, intensity and depth to help avoid falling into monotony, while prioritising your partner’s preferences,’ Sabat continues. ‘Be gentle, and communicate with your partner to ensure they are comfortable and enjoying the experience fully.’ 21. Go beyond the penis With your free hand, you can touch her breasts, gently squeeze her nipples, caress her stomach or place under a butt cheek for support.

Cunnilingus is stimulation of the female genitals using the tongue or lips. ‘Good cunnilingus requires technique – whether you are giving or receiving,’ says sex and relationship expert for Lovehoney, Annabelle Knight. ‘The key is that both partners are completely relaxed so no one is worrying or feeling insecure and you can both get lost in the moment.’ How to perform cunnilingus Explore your surroundings with targeted stimulation to make the sensations more intense. ‘When using your hands during cunnilingus, use your fingers to gently separate your partner’s vaginal lips,’ suggests Sabat. ‘Then, go directly inside of these lips, and stimulate the clitoris with your fingers or tongue. This will likely cause your partner to feel exposed – in a good way! – while your hands lend an extra added measure of stimulation.’ 17. Lube it up

If you’re eager to wash immediately before engaging in oral sex, showering with your partner is a great way to prioritise hygiene without killing the mood. ‘In fact, it can even act as a great catalyst to foreplay,’ says Sabat. ‘Ask your partner if they’d like to clean up with you in the shower, and gently lather each other’s bodies in soap. Standing close together under the warm stream of water and caressing one another will help you enjoy the sensual sensations this environment brings to an already intimate moment.’ 3. Go easy on the soap So the first thing is to ask what they like and what they don’t like, what they’re into, what they’re not into.” The ‘flat out’: “so that’s having the flat part of your tongue and moving it in an upwards direction across the inner labia up to the clitoris or the glans of the clitoris” In my experience, most cunnilingus-providers aren't afraid to shove a finger or two up in there while going down. Which is great. Tribby suggests curling two fingers up towards her belly button once they're inserted, and using a “firm 'come hiher' motion” to stimulate the g-spot. Not every person enjoys oral sex the same way. Remember, the clitoral network is complex. Some only want external clitoral stimulation, while others want a combination of external and internal stimulation. (And some, of course, may want no external clitoral stimulation at all.)Would you like to perform amazing cunnilingus on your partner? Here are 70 animated cunnilingus gif to show you the correct technique and to bring her to orgasm. The best head you’ll ever give someone is one that they really want to receive,” certified sex educator Georgia Grace, brain behind @thegspot tells the Hook Up. Last week, we delved deep into how to give a fantastic blow job. This week, it's the ladies' turn — we turned once again to Kristen Tribby of The Pleasure Chest to help us figure out exactly what to do when mouth meets vagina. Of course, some veteran actors aren't all that keen on the new way of doing things. Game of Thrones alumnus Sean Bean recently said that intimacy coordinators "spoil the spontaneity." More important than spontaneity, however, is the safety of actors on set and it’s clear that the strict-yet-necessary restrictions regarding consent, boundaries, and touching are being welcomed by actors, directors, and production companies as a whole.

Keep these rules handy, and you will have a happy lady on your hands. And in your mouth (COULD NOT RESIST).

The average man can maintain genital thrusting for two and a half minutes before ejaculation, but the average woman requires fifteen to eighteen minutes of persistent clitoral stimulation to have her first orgasm,” Kerner says. “That twelve-and-a-half-minute difference is a gaping maw of frustration on the part of women.” Glad to see you can appreciate some of the research even though you disagree with the thesis (and that’s okay). We’re all just trying to make sense of this stuff, and I offered something–whether good or bad–that will hopefully spark others to ask new questions and lead to new paths forward. Stroking the testicles, stimulating the prostate, caressing the penis, and engaging with your partner’s entire body will help them feel pleasure.’ She is utterly correct: Hollywood is sexist and sex-phobic. I'm not going to use this as an excuse to rant on the topic, though -- been there, done that. Instead, let's take a moment to recognize the best moments in cine-lingus history, shall we? Some of them are funny, some are sexy, and all deserve kudos for venturing where the MPAA would rather they not.

Prepare down there. The first step to reducing fear and anxiety is to pee and perform some basic hygiene. You’re probably fine without this step (skip the flowery douches, please!), but if you’re at all worried, a shower can help calm your nerves. Here is the main issue: When dealing with potential parallels Sandmel’s warnings against “parallelomania” are very, very helpful. It is, of course, very interesting to delve into the world of Greco-Roman sexual norms as it is mediated by brothel art and graffiti, and at this level of abstraction (i.e. “sexual norms”) there will be obvious similarities, as there would be with any author writing about sex. This by itself does not constitute a real parallel. And in this chat, cover consent. It doesn’t have to be awkward or sterile, or involve a form or an app (ffs). It can be so sexy to say “I’d love to kiss you between your thighs, would you like that?” phew, I’m getting hot just writing it. OK, we talked, what next? Communicate. Your partner can’t know what feels good unless you let them know, right? So, speak up. If you’re shy, use noises or movements to express yourself. Try guiding your partner’s head if your partner is comfortable with that; hold it in place and press yourself against them if they’re OK with it. This is a great way to give guidance, and it can be sexy as hell. It may come as zero surprise that men are much less likely than women to give oral sex in a mixed-sex relationship. In fact, in a study conducted for the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, only 44 percent of women reported receiving oral sex, compared with 63 percent of men. This is despite there being no gender differences regarding the amount of pleasure it gave them. It really is different rules, huh? Is our perception of pleasure changing?The power is quite literally in your hands, so make use of them. ‘While cunnilingus focuses on stimulating the vulva, remember that our fingers can only help to make the experience even more pleasurable,’ says Sabat. ‘When going down on your partner, use your hands to caress their breasts, hips, butt, thighs, waist and more to ensure you’re giving all their erogenous zones attention. When your partner is eager for more engagement, take it a step further by slowly and patiently introducing your fingers to the vagina – it’ll add even more pleasure to their experience.’ 10. Assume the position While many women and vulva-having people love cunnilingus because it focuses heavily on stimulating the clitoris and therefore is more likely to make them orgasm (between 70-80 per cent of women need clitoral stimulation to climax), many also feel self-conscious about receiving it. The All Fours plays to the strengths of sitting on your partner’s face without forcing you to literally sit on your partner’s face . By getting on your hands and knees above your lying partner, you’re supporting yourself — and doing so in a generally comfortable way. All the intensity you expect from face-sitting, without the discomfort. While consistency is a safe bet for newer partners, it can be super sexy to try new things together. Variety, after all, is the spice of life. “I like when a dude keeps it fresh,” says Dana*, 28, from Philadelphia. “Change it up with different movements, try toys, put things inside me. Obviously ask if I’m okay with it, but I think the best orgasms come with variety.”