Swinging Tales: A Collection Of Short Stories Of Swingers Having Fun

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Anyway we all agreed to go to a hotel that's when i realized my girlfriend was mad for lying to her and not telling her the truth about this swinging couple. She told me if we did anything that we were over. I told her lets leave i will not throw away three years for one night with this couple. She told me no we are doing this i want to do it. So i went along with it and we swapped and had a lot of sex and a great time with the other couple. Many people spent today taking it easy, enjoying their time in paradise and resting up for the final day on the ship. The biggest area that could have been dealt with better was getting into swinging is about both of you and the way you pressed the issue when she clearly said "NO" several times is probably where she may have got it in her head that she wasn't good enough for you. Within my relationship with my SO we have a rule every night/experience ends together. A little bro-time never hurts so we headed off into the more populated strip of bars and proceeded to get sh*tfaced. Warning: As you’d expect, this week’s diary features some explicit details about sex, so it’s definitely NSFW. Monday

I was so in my element that all the insecurities I brought on board were gone by this point. Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking that swinging requires looking a certain way: the name of the game is confidence, and I was seeing that being myself is all I need. Wednesday Five years into the relationship, the pair decided to open up about their different desires - ranging from career aspirations to fantasies. They decided to identify as 'ethically non-monogamous' - which means they communicate before having sex with others outside their marriage.After a while, we had done about as much as two horny women could in a sea of bath bubbles and undulating bodies. We then faced what would become a familiar, pleasant dilemma: do we let the sexual energy just ebb away or do we try to parlay it into something more? I wanted more.

The pleasure on his face was palpable as we gave him a blowjob together, as was the pleasure on ours when he took turns going down on us. The session ended with him taking her from behind while burying his fingers in me, leaving all of us sweaty and breathless. My husband and I spent the morning on a private, nude island near Raiatea with a group of swingers, getting full body tans while letting husbands and wives take turns playing with my naked breasts.

Even as experienced swingers, we were grateful to have spent the first few days becoming grounded with just each other, ensuring our communication and bond were solid: this always makes sex with others a more seamless experience. This man and his doormat accomplice were PREDATORS, themselves using swinging gatherings for their 'respectable' front as they mercinarily trawled the greenest members for mistress fodder. Your wife is now a prostitute. And you've just seen one of her truer colours: selfish, exploitative, materialistic and greedy. She and he are clearly well suited. Sorry to here what you went and are going through.... You were very breif on how you and your wife got into swinging, but I know from experience you have to communicate before and after any swinging experience and the one rule we made was ... If any of us is not OK with something it should be talked about as soon as possible. So I think your first mistake was contininuing to push the lifestyle on someone who wasn't into it. This may have led her to believe that she was enough. The second was letting her go for a walk when you obviously weren't ok with it. Finally you have no mention of any rules that the two of you set before getting into the lifestyle, this is crucial and should be reviewed regularily. Though my eyes remained closed, I could feel the energy of everyone in the room discovering how profound masturbation can be when you aren’t just racing to reach a climax.

We have guidelines for example, we won't take one for the team. If one of us isn't interested we both aren't interested. Swinging is a bit like Communism. Great as an ideal, frequently sh*t in practise. The reason? HUMAN BEINGS! Perhaps surprisingly, sex with others was not our priority: for us, it’s about building community. We’ve made some of our closest friends at swingers events, and we hoped that after a week of cruising, that number would grow. I thought the ultra sparkly costume I wore for that night’s metallic party would be the highlight of my day, but it was seeing our friends and community come together to make sure my partner had a birthday he would never forget.They hope to "break the stigma" surrounding non-monogamy and swinging. Cate, a podcaster, said: "The first time I swung I was terrified. Theirs is a really negative stigma surrounding the lifestyle. I thought a hairy chested dude wearing a gold chain with a beer belly was going to come out and f*** me. After a morning of topless photos on the beach, we invited a friend to our room for a threesome. She had suggestively asked to help celebrate my husband’s birthday, and he was more than happy to unwrap this gift. It’s not all rainbows and lollipops, there are really hard conversations to be had and the lifestyle isn’t for everyone," she said. “There isn’t a one-piece puzzle - for some non-monogamy is great for others monogamy is the answer.”