TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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A poorly fitted cage won’t just be uncomfortable though. It could fall off completely, cause pain when you start getting hard, chafe and irritate your skin, and cause hygiene problems as the pee hole doesn’t line up properly with your urethra. There are three of these clamps included with the cage, along with the usual pins and spacers. The anti-pullout feature is optional, though, so you can leave these off if you want to start slowly or simply want more freedom. The key is getting the right fit. You’ll need to have accurate measurements to find the right size chastity cage for you, and even then, everybody and every cage is different, so it’s normal to go through some trial and error. Sometimes you’ll also see a measurement for the gap between the ring and the body, which can be useful if you have particularly large or high hanging testicles, but most of the time you won’t need to measure for this part.

While not all chastity devices list a gap size, it’s usually easy to see from pictures if a cage has a large or small gap, relative to the device's size itself. Estimates can be made from the product's total length.Aim for the tip of your penis to touch the tip of the cage. This will let you urinate through the hole at the tip.

Worst case scenario: you don’t get to cum for a bit, you learn something new and you can say with pride that you’re an adventurous soul. So all in all it’s not worth looking for a cage you can keep on forever, at least in my opinion. Get one that fits without causing pain and leave it on until it starts to smell, then take it off to clean for a bit. Rinse and repeat. Literally. Personally, I get distracted by horniness pretty often. I still manage to get my work done on time, but it’s more difficult for some guys. Place the tape measure on top of your penis against your pubic muscle. Wrap the tape measure all the way around your penis and testicles and note where it crosses over. We’ve rounded up the latest and most excellent toys to hold your member captive for all your chastity fans. Are you feeling particularly adventurous? Explore our favorite extreme sex toys or even some of the best ball stretchers to pair up with your chastity cage.You’ll learn patience, gratitude, and HOLY CRAP when that cage comes off the intensity of feeling has to be experienced to be believed! There’s nothing hugely special about me. I’d describe myself as your typical modern, forward-thinking guy. I enjoy sports, staying healthy, love my family and friends, and have a satisfying career that pushes me to work hard so I can enjoy some of life's luxuries. If they hang down with a height of more than 2”, or extend away from your body with a length of more than 1.5”, then you should definitely choose a cage with a large gap. When you try a new cage, pay attention to your body. Any discomfort or pain indicates a problem with the fit.

Shaving your public hair can also help with this, and reduce the chance of pain for your hair being pulled by the cage. The easiest solution is to use a little lube on the affected area if you feel rubbing and friction. This should make wearing your chastity cage a much more comfortable experience. A snug-fitting metal cage will keep your penis from moving at all, whereas a looser plastic cage will allow for some movement and just prevent you from getting hard. The best way to take accurate measurements is to use a flexible tape measure. These are the kind you usually see tailors use to measure for clothing. They can be used short-term until you’ve earned your way out or as part of a long term BDSM relationship in which you hand over the keys to someone else.Long term, absolutely not. Discomfort will turn into pain, and pain can turn into a medical emergency faster than you’d think. If you want to wear a cage for longer than a few hours, comfort and safety are the priority. Too loose, and it could fall off while wearing it, which is an uncomfortable thing to experience if you’re wearing your cage in public. They’re designed to inhibit erection and orgasm and hand over control to the Key Holder in the ultimate form of orgasm control. Wearing a chastity device means your penis is denied the full sensation you usually experience, you won’t be able to touch yourself, even when visiting the bathroom and this is going to be frustrating. Best case scenario: you discover a whole new layer to your relationship and a whole new side of yourself.

Similar to the penis and scrotum diameter, place the tape measure on top of your penis, but this time at the widest part of your glans (the head of the penis). Wrap it all the way around and note where it crosses over. And if you answered yes, then… Well, damn. That’s hardcore, dude. You probably know more about this fetish than I do, so don’t listen to me. The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful. If you masturbate alone every day, then you’ll probably want less sex. And when you do have sex, you might find be desensitized. You might even find it hard to cum. If you are between sizes, choose the larger size. This leaves room for your penis to grow slightly during the day.

Maybe all you need to be the next Mozart, Voltaire, or Tesla is to deny yourself release. You can take off the cage when you’re rich and famous. Even for those who enjoy pain, a chastity cage shouldn’t hurt. If it does, it could cause lesions, blisters, or even permanent damage. When I say “effectively”, that means a few things. It should keep it secure, obviously. But also consider how hard you want it to restrain erections. Long story short, you don’t want to go outside and have everyone looking at your cage underneath your trousers. Sleeker plastic cages will be better for this as they are easier to wear and move around in, and often less bulky under the pants. Consider the temperature when measuring. If it’s cold your penis will be smaller. If it’s warm your penis will be larger.