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Shyness/Social Anxiety (you want to join the conversation but you fear making yourself a social outcast by saying something stupid) I’m a 2 sided person when I’m at school I ask question after after question the kid in my class hate me with a blessing because the teacher can never teach but I asked questions that were valid and I learn a lot I read ahead finish the work before it’s Ben given I’m considered a extrovert even though I don’t talk out unless to ask question I’m a observer and every person who knows me calls me the the silent type so I get what your saying it makes perfect sense except that even the ones who talk to know one who if you if this you seemed involved they still spit on you Scientists have not traced the root cause of introversion but have been able to identify what makes individuals with this personality type different.

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Introverts enjoy stimulating conversations, but it is safe to say that these are few and far between. On Highway 5 outside of Suomussalmi, Finland, motorists who come upon the scarecrows unaware find the sight either glee-inducing or terrifying. The figures are made up of peat heads covered in straw hair and simple wooden bodies draped with colorful clothing that is changed twice a year. The immobile army seems to stand watch over the road, but despite their stationary appearance, they haven’t always stood here in this lonely field off of the highway. Cain, S. (2016). Quiet power: Growing up as an introvert in a world that can’t stop talking. London, England: Penguin Life.Shyness is about the fear of social judgments – at a job interview or a party you might be excessively worried about what people think of you. Whereas an introvert might not feel any of those things at all, they simply have the preference to be in a quieter setting. Susan Cain Hi Robert, sorry that you had this experience, it sounds so familiar. I find the mixing of worlds really difficult (bringing groups together who I know but haven’t met). When conversations are happening it is quite comfortable to listen and allow it to continue. But having the ‘quietness’ pointed out just makes it awkward. I don’t know about you but I prefer engaging one-to-one or with small number of people. I’ve also found that asking questions is a good way to keep conversations moving without attention/spot light shining on myself. I’m not open to many people. I’m usually quiet and I don’t really like attention. So if I like you enough to show you the real me, you must be very special. – unknown Dark Horse is a metaphorical expression for someone or something that rises to unexpected prominence. The term originated in horse racing as a reference to the contender nobody had on their radar. It’s also been applied to politics describing a candidate no one thought would win. U.S. President James Polk is an example of such an unexpected surprise nominee and winner.

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If you have an outgoing personality, it might be challenging to get a soft-spoken person to be loosen up around you because of how overly-stimulated they’ll be by your energy.

9. They Aren’t Bored Or Unhappy Just Because They’re Quiet

Why do so many psychologists recommend getting outside and taking a walk in the sunshine? These quiet and peaceful walks can have a tremendous effect on your stress levels. 12. They’re More Patient Life can zap the energy right out of you, and the introvert has learned that you can recharge your batteries by being alone in silence. Quiet folks can be introverted, but that’s not always the case. Consequently, everyone should learn the value of recharging. 15. They Have Enhanced Focus and Concentration